Friday, July 10, 2009

On to MD Anderson...

Our first meeting with Dr. Demonte was this morning at the MD Anderson Brain and Spine Center. This was a very different appointment than the previous ones. First of all, Lena was the only child in the area. This was a little uncomfortable but I think good for her. She was dressed up and received a lot of positive attention from patients and nurses.

Dr. Demonte reaffirmed everything that had been explained to us by Dr. Whitehead. Lena has a tumor in her cavernous sinus that is either pressing against her third nerve or might actually be a part of the nerve. It is a very rare location for a tumor to appear in a child and there have only be about 20 documented cases (I think I got this right.) Dr. Demonte has performed about 5 of these operations on children which is more than any other doctor in the world. So, although his experience isn't great, it's the best there is. We don't know what type of tumor we are dealign with but we do know that it's located in a very delicate area with a lot of nerves that could be affected if they try to remove it. So, at this time, the goal is to biopsy the tumor to find out what we're dealing with. The doctors would like to relieve the pressure off of the nerve and/or remove the tumor but it doesn't seem like that will be likely for this first operation.

Things we know... or as always, think we know...

The issues with Lena's eye will probably not reverse and most likely will deteriate further after the operation. She has good vision from her left eye but the pupil is still unusally dialated and she has since begun to lose movement in the eye. More than like her brain is adapting to this and using the images from her right eye to compensate.

There is a possibility that Lena carries a genetic syndrome that will increase her likelihood of further tumors developing throughout her life. She will be tested for this as will Kira and Naia.

Lena's operation is scheduled for July 20th at MD Anderson. She will be in the hospital for 4-5 days for recovery. During that time there will be a complete analysis done of the tissue to determine what type of tumor it is. Then we'll start discussing treatment.


Right now Lena is obviously aware that she has been spending a lot of time at the doctor's office. She's had sedation, MRIs, CT scans, blood work, etc. For her, a really good day is a day we go to the doctor and nobody pokes her or takes pictures of her head. :) Kira and Naia are also aware of the visits. However, the girls don't know what is yet to come. We've been spending as many days as possible filled with fun family activities. We swim a lot, have gone to the beach, have gone bowling, do a lot of projects, been to see a play (Aladdin), played at water parks, etc. Our goal is to fill all the girls cups with overflowing love so that they have good memories of this summer too.

I'll keep you posted on what's happening or on when my next mini-meltdown occurs. :)

We'd love to hear from you so leave us a note when you stop in to catch up with us.
Lots of love- Holi

7 comments:

  1. Such a great site, Holland. My friend also did one when her son was ill. He has been in remission and doing great, but her site was so helpful to her and her family.

    I have to ask, did the Dr. mention anything about NF? Giovanna was diagnosed with a condition that can cause (mostly) benign tumors on the nerves and most frequently the optic nerves.

    You guys are in our prayers. I do understand to an extent. Gigi had a Summer where we did nothing but go to doctors and it was very trying on her.

    Keep us updated. Anita, Giovanna, Sophia and Frannie.

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  2. Poor lena she is in our prayer. We will love her forever and always. We are all hoping for the best!

    Love-
    Nick

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  3. Holland, I feel as though I am sitting next to you as I read your words which are filled with knowledge, trepidation but most of all... LOVE!!!! I'm sending you lots of ((((HUGS))))... Love you!
    Rozanne

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  4. Holland, I am so glad I found your blog. I think about you and your girls everyday - Glenda also asks about you very frequently. Sounds like you have the best available care. I love to hear about the memories you are creating (outside the doctors office)- you are a wonderful mom! Feel our prayers and our thoughts - I know the entire office thinks about you daily.
    Love,
    Natalie Martinez

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  5. You have been in my thoughts and prayers since you first posted about Lena. I know you will fill the summer with great memories and will make it through the surgery. I'll be thinking about you.....

    Lisa Saarie

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  6. Dear Holland,

    My family and I are keeping you and yours in our thoughts and prayers -and thoughts and prayers - and thoughts and prayers. I remember the day you and Lena were at the office after her visit with the 2nd opthamologist. She looked so cute in her black school t-shirt, blue jean skirt, and white leggings. The sweetness of her soul oozed from her pores. Your daughters are all so precious, and you are an incredible mom making wonderful memories for your whole family. We pray for a successful surgery and look forward to hearing good news.

    Kaleta

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  7. Holly, Lena and all of your family are in our daily prayers, the prayers will not cease. I think this blog is great to keep family and friends updated on Lena's progress. Praying for a succcessful surgery. If there is anything I can do, even if its just to listen, please do not hesitate to contact me.

    Maddie

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